Imagine that! Beautiful, Sensual Models over 50…

Yes! Fashion models in all ages represent reality and we thank London designer
Joanna Sykes for blazing the trail and shaking the fashion industry to it’s core!
It’s about time…let’s watch to see if other designers follow.

About Joanna Sykes: a young, London designer who has had her own label for about
2 years.

About her label, SYKES: simply said, her line is ‘beautiful basics in beautiful fabrics.’
No wonder she is showing models over 50 wearing her designs. Finally someone is
designing clothes for US!

We all need to keep our eye on Joanna Sykes. I’m looking forward to seeing her ads.

If you know where you can find the SYKES label in your area…
pls. post a comment.

It’s normal, as as we age our sexual driving force does diminish
somewhat in both men and women. And while we navigate the
emotional and physical challenges of marriage and relationships…
there is one genuine solution:

Emotional Intimacy…the glue that binds!

This emotional bonding withstands all, even when you think
you’re beyond physical attraction and sexual satisfaction.

The 5 Pillars of Emotional Intimacy:

#1: LISTEN
Really listen…don’t just brush off the words of conversation. Perhaps your partner is looking for
a hug or compassion. If you listen deeply, you tap into the hidden feelings behind the words.

#2: BE CONSIDERATE
Just be nice! Show respect for each other. Interesting about men: when they think their partner
isn’t nice to them, they sometimes go to another woman who they think is ‘nice.’
Women, however, react differently. We shut down, and put-up! Women generally become

depressed and secluded.

#3: APPRECIATION
Never underestimate the power of saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. Think of all the ways you
really appreciate your lover. Remember, what you give…you get!

#4: COMPROMISE
A relationship does not thrive on dominance. Compromise means balance! When you achieve
this, you’ll enjoy a life of living and loving.

#5: DREAM ON
Support each other’s dreams. Especially for women over 50: dreams fuel passion and desire.
Don’t hold each other back. Go back to school, build an ecology safe house, take up a hobbie
…chase that rainbow! Don’t give up your dreams.

Without EMOTIONAL INTIMACY, relationships fall apart and you could be destined to
enduring your remaining years with regret and loneliness.
Emotional Intimacy is the glue that binds and puts the fire in your passion and sexual desire.

Sensual Bliss Action Challenge:
*Incorporate ALL 5 Pillars of Emotional Intimacy into your daily life.
*Note how your effort changes the dynamic of your marriage and your own attitude.
*Expect your partner to reciprocate. If not…then it’s time to have a serious talk.

Our internal monologue is part of our ’self.’ We don’t
even realize we have this continual, negative conversation
going on…chatter…chatter…chatter…

Especially for Women Over 50: Pay attention! Just listen to yourself! Do
you realize what you’re doing? This negative self-talk is ruining your life!

Eliminating this self-talk can actually make you feel sexy and desired again.
You’ll develop new passions and feel in love. Sure, it’s easy to say. But, convincing
yourself this actually works, can be difficult.

The best way is by a negative self-talk example:
*Another crappy day…I’m tired already.
*Got to do 50 curnches or my fat gut will fall to my knees.
Doesn’t do any good…a waste of time.
*I look fat anyway…so who cares?
*I never follow through. No wonder I look hideous!

Here’s an example of positive self-talk:

*Well, it’s another day…got to do my crunches before coffee.
*OH, so coffe’s my reward AND a tighter gut!
*WOW! I have a little color in my cheeks…looks good.
*Doesn’t take much time…I’ll add leg lifts tomorrow.
*And I’ll download some Latin music so I can crunch to the beat!

When you nix the negative self-talk:
You’re on the receiving end of the Grandest Love of ALL:
LOVING YOURSELF!

AND when you love yourself, you’re like a magnet. Flood gates open and you’ll
attract the romance, mystery, dreams and desire that you deserve.

SENSUAL BLISS ACTION CHALLENGE:
*Pay attention to your internal dialogue.
*How often do you catch yourself internalizing negative talk, about yourself?
*Each time, turn your negative self-talk into a positive statement.
*Negative self-talk is like a bad habit. STOP IT!