Learn How to Reclaim Your Passion & Desire

Here in the midwest, the air is drowning in the mating song of the Cicada, an insect
that is all about renewal.

It’s life is a metaphor that can be a lesson for us women over 50.

You see, after hatching, the young Cicada buries itself in the ground. After several years,
at the right time, they all emerge(quite large)… one by one. In the park this morning, I
couldn’t help but see the holes in the earth, with vacant, crunchy shells along the side.

After all these years in the earth, this large insect emerges, sheds it’s old life and greets
the world as a  youthful, flying bug with bulging, shiny black eyes. AND starts the song:
the mating song.

Well, what have you done to emerge yourself…
from our cultural expectations of aging…
and become the Magnificent Woman that has been buried within?

NOW’S THE TIME TO ANALYZE AND REVISE:

DIETING: perhaps it’s not a diet to lose weight, even though that can be a nice bonus,
but a diet for health. Eating for your skin, hair, eyes, heart, mind, and that healthy
coloring in your face. Treat yourself to fruits, and veggies / pass on the chips.

EXERCISE: not only is exercise good for weight control, but look at the other benefits.
Walking for only 30 minutes per day is equally good for stress and the mind. Don’t fill
your head with negative chatter, use this time for clearing your mind… get in the zone
and just walk and breathe, walk and breathe.

ATTITUDE: a negative attitude trumps hair and skin as the #1 indicator of getting older.
Believe me, I know how easy it is to let all the little, insignificant things become a huge
boulder we’re carrying around our neck. Come on, lighten up a little! Thing before
speaking… learn to smile… and be nice. BE NICE! Works wonders.

So, if you want to restore your passion and desire, then start a renewal.
You’ll notice a little spring in your step, and you’ll start the day with a new outlook.
AND, let in the joy… you’ll be glad you did!

Pls. comment and share what you’re doing for your RENEWAL!

All over the world, the months of December and January are filled with traditional holidays
and celebrations. So, my question to you is:  has your celebration become a habit?

Well, if you truly are not enjoying yourself and not looking forward to the coming year…
then it’s time to invent your own TRADITION! And since it’s customary for women to run
around doing for others, then treat yourself and make this truly a tradition just for you alone.

*So what makes you feel good… puts spring in your step? Do it!
*Get a gift for yourself / wrap it up to open on a certain day at a certain time.
*Gather blankets, towels, food and toys to take to a ‘no-kill’ shelter in your city.
If you stay and play… you might just take a fuzzy little fellow home with you!
*Wrap yourself in love and passion… the best gift to give to yourself.

My personal tradition: get new pajamas for Christmas Eve, go to bed with hot cocoa
and a movie. That’s it! And if we have guests to spend the night, then we ALL get new
pajamas, and enjoy our hot cocoa together to ‘A Christmas Story.’

For those of you who celebrate Christmas… Merry Christmas to All!
And for those of you who have other holidays and traditions to celebrate,
let’s all join together in spirit and wish all a most glorious holiday season
and peace on earth!

… Rebecca

HINT: It’s not about positions!

The meaning of the word ’sensual’ goes all the way from being ‘provocative, steamy
and hot’ to ‘arousing, sexy stimulating.’

And then comes the disconnect: Perhaps it’s not in your best interest to take your
’steamy, sexy and stimulating’ self to the supermarket… just for a quart of milk!

So, let’s get to the root of what makes a woman sensual and how that translates into
passion and desire:

FACT: Being sensual means ‘arousing or exciting the senses.’ Your senses being:
Sound, Sight, Taste, Touch, and Smell. And when you’re experiencing your senses,
then for some reason… you have an indescribable GLOW! This has been explained
as a ‘love magnet.’
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HINT: It’s not about positions!

The meaning of the word ’sensual’ goes all the way from being ‘provocative, steamy and
hot’ to ‘arousing, sexy, stimulating.’

And then comes the disconnect:
Perhaps it’s not in your best interest to take your ’steamy, sexy, and stimulating’ self to
the supermarket just for a quart of milk!

So, let’s get to the root of what makes a woman sensual
and how that translates into passion & desire.

FACT:
*BEING SENSUAL means ‘arousing or exciting the senses.’
Your senses being: SOUND, SIGHT, TASTE, TOUCH and SMELL.

For a woman, this pretty much says it all. We ARE the sensual sex and ARE in one
with Sound, Sight, Taste, Touch and Smell. Also, note: you don’t hear of a man referred
to as being sensual. As I like to do, let’s take shoes as an example: notice women in a
shoe department and then notice a man. Totally different approach. So what about the
differences in the senses involved?

Women love the colors, design, and materials. Further…we twist, turn and prance just to
feel the shoe and see how it looks on our foot. This is definitely a sensual
experience for women.

What does this have to do with our passion and desire?

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When was the last time you Seduced Yourself?

First, you need to know
the true meaning of ’seduction’: taking yourself away…
‘Seduction’ does NOT have to be about SEX!
But can be the bridge to your passion and desire.

So, what can you do to ‘take  yourself away?’

*Maybe you put on your ’soft clothes’, make a great cup of coffee with real cream and
snuggle into bed to crack open that novel you’ve been pining to read.

*Seduction can be a trip to the bookstore…going to a shoe sale…taking your dog to the
dog park…treating yourself to a facial…watching your favorite movie, again.

*Or taking yourself on a date to your favorite restaurant.

When you make time to ’seduce  yourself’,
it’s like an injection of loving yourself.
And you have to love yourself first, before you can truly love another. And when you
love yourself, you become a love magnet. This is your foreplay to rev-up your passion and
desire.
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It’s normal, as as we age our sexual driving force does diminish
somewhat in both men and women. And while we navigate the
emotional and physical challenges of marriage and relationships…
there is one genuine solution:

Emotional Intimacy…the glue that binds!

This emotional bonding withstands all, even when you think
you’re beyond physical attraction and sexual satisfaction.

The 5 Pillars of Emotional Intimacy:

#1: LISTEN
Really listen…don’t just brush off the words of conversation. Perhaps your partner is looking for
a hug or compassion. If you listen deeply, you tap into the hidden feelings behind the words.

#2: BE CONSIDERATE
Just be nice! Show respect for each other. Interesting about men: when they think their partner
isn’t nice to them, they sometimes go to another woman who they think is ‘nice.’
Women, however, react differently. We shut down, and put-up! Women generally become
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FOR:  WOMEN OVER  50 ONLY!

This caught my eye and made me crazy!
The headline on the cover, “ARE YOU DRESSING YOUR AGE?”

(This is refers to a story inside MORE magazine-October 2009 issue.)

And the woman in this story is Barbara Newman, 55, who is transformed by the famous
Tim Gunn from her vibrant, energetic look into an older-looking lady in high heels. And
this is why I must write to you…

As you may know, I’ve been in the fashion industry for over 33yrs. Within this time, I’ve
seen women come to own their own individual fashion space. And I’m proud to say I
helped spearhead this along. You see, in the late seventies I coined the phrase,
‘Dressing for Lifestyle and NOT Age!’

Frankly, I thought Barbara Newman(p.48) looked great in her BEFORE outfit
(except for her bag.) I’m a little jealous because this ‘before look’ is the way I would dress…
if I had the body! I don’t, so I won’t.

I find this article ridiculous. And the fact(p.52) she’s wearing sandals which look to
be minimum 3″ heel height is laughable. And why? Here’s the caption, “A heel that’s
comfortable, fun and stylish”. I disagree, unless you just sit and don’t walk.

Shoes are my expertise and fit for comfort and lifestyle are primary
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It all started when I first looked in the mirror this morning.
I look old…old neck…moisturizer can’t perform miracles…
chatter…chatter…new pants too tight…eat like a pig…too
old to wear jeans anyway…chatter…chatter…chatter…
we hear it all the time! In our head!

Our internal monologue is part of our ’self.’ We don’t
even realize we have this continual, negative conversation
going on…chatter…chatter…chatter…

Especially for Women Over 50: Pay attention! Just listen to yourself! Do
you realize what you’re doing? This negative self-talk is ruining your life!

Eliminating this self-talk can actually make you feel sexy and desired again.
You’ll develop new passions and feel in love. Sure, it’s easy to say. But, convincing
yourself this actually works, can be difficult.

The best way is by a negative self-talk example:
*Another crappy day…I’m tired already.
*Got to do 50 curnches or my fat gut will fall to my knees.
Doesn’t do any good…a waste of time.
*I look fat anyway…so who cares?
*I never follow through. No wonder I look hideous!

Here’s an example of positive self-talk:

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Meet my Grand-Dog Ingrid.
How cute!

I’m using Ingrid’s photo to make a point. Something we all
can relate to: Our Eyes Have Feeling!

When looking at a picture of Ingrid, I immediately make the
‘aawww’ sound and feel all warm and cuddly. It’s just like
Ingrid is right next to me. And then I think of her cold, wet
nose / how she waits anxiously by my refrigerator door for
a dollop of yogurt / the warmth of her big ol’ head resting on my lap. I’m even smiling
as I write this for you. (I can even smell her, but I won’t go further.)

How do you feel when you see your baby(your pet), or grandchild, OR when you
see a photo of someone or something you don’t like at all? I call this ‘eye touch’.
Our emotions immediately come to the surface…both good or bad, loving or disgusting
and all other feelings in between.

We don’t just SEE with our eyes.

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NOT ME!
If you agree , then you’re in the right place:

My name is Rebecca Eisele, and I show women like you
endless, stimulating ways to uncover you hidden sensuality
so you can reclaim your passion and desire to get that lovin’
feeling again.

I’m over 60 and I know how you feel: daily, we’re surrounded
by detrimental aging reminders. After time, we’re convinced that losing our desire
and libido is what getting older is all about.

Well, I’m not  standing for this and neither should you.
So, here’s what I’ll teach you:

How to tap into your ‘Mental Playground’, so you’ll discover the vital,
sensual woman inside and learn how to seduce yourself to feel
irresistibly seductive and  sexy. Then,like a magnet, you’ll attract the
magnificent passionate life you deserve.

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